She’s married, so?
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I don’t know how to say this. Its a mixed feeling. This is quite personal. But I just wanna share what I’m feeling right now.
First of all, who is she? She was my first love, em first girlfriend. She’s married. So what? Of course I’m happy to see her with some guy, who is better than me.
I’m not a good guy. I was a big player and I deserve that, I mean I deserve the punishment. Our relationship last for four years and then I dumped her. But I still want to be her friend. But now she’s somebody’s wife, so we still can be friends.
I was naive and I always had in my mind that it just a puppy love. There’s no future in it. Here’s some quote for your thought.
“First romance, first love, is something so special to all of us, both emotionally and physically, that it touches our lives and enriches them forever.” – Rosemary Rogers
But now I’ve changed. Distance should be no problem in a relationship as long as both of us have faith in each other.
Back to the question. She’s married, so what should I do when attending her wedding ceremony? I hope you guys can give some suggestion.Thanks.
P/S – Credit to Ijam for the wedding picture. Its not her anyway. But I love the composition.
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alaahai..tiada jodoh kalian..
pst:skang kan sudah ada;)huhu good luck!
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em.. ye tu kisah lama. tapi sgt sensitif jika dibangkitkan kembali..
thanks.. smoga yana pun bertemu jodoh!!
alaahai..tiada jodoh kalian..
pst:skang kan sudah ada;)huhu good luck!
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em.. ye tu kisah lama. tapi sgt sensitif jika dibangkitkan kembali..
thanks.. smoga yana pun bertemu jodoh!!
Hey.. I just happened to pass by..
If I were you, I wouldn’t go. And like the rest of the above comments, I will just say that I’m out of town. Then send congrats and a gift to her.
Apasal saya rasa awak tak payah pergi? Sebabnya.. nanti terpandang wajahnya, you will remember all the good times spent together.. nanti start menyesal lah pulak kan…
So better safe than sorry. No need to go but at the same time be polite to wish her moga2 berkekalan hingga ke akhir hayat…
hi kinn.. thanks for passing by.
Em, thanks for your comment too. really appreciate it. I think its OK since we don’t really have good times together. insyaAllah tak nyesal nye. Kenangan lama tu pahit dan manis akan tetap diingatan tapi dgn kekasih skrg, baru melekat di hati!
Hey Adlan..
Ah.. cool.. Then boleh go the wedding lah kan..
Answer your qn. Manjalara now showing at Suria, Singapore channel every Sat 8.30pm.. but mcm lambat kan.. so tgk youtube.. hahaha! Mcm dah stuck pulak tgk story tu..
Brape banyak episodes eh?
:p
most of the series in Akasia mcm manjalara, bella, ezora and sutera maya (tak tau la suria nk beli citer2 ni ke tak) will be like 60 episod.
tapi kat malaysia tayang 4 hari seminggu. so dlm 4 bulan baru abes.
tapi kalo s’pore tayang 1 episod seminggu, alamatnya setahun pun tak abes..
LOL!
Skarang nie tgh tayang 2jam 2 episod pada hari sabtu..
tetapi lambat jugak.. hahaha!
Hey.. I just happened to pass by..
If I were you, I wouldn’t go. And like the rest of the above comments, I will just say that I’m out of town. Then send congrats and a gift to her.
Apasal saya rasa awak tak payah pergi? Sebabnya.. nanti terpandang wajahnya, you will remember all the good times spent together.. nanti start menyesal lah pulak kan…
So better safe than sorry. No need to go but at the same time be polite to wish her moga2 berkekalan hingga ke akhir hayat…
hi kinn.. thanks for passing by.
Em, thanks for your comment too. really appreciate it. I think its OK since we don’t really have good times together. insyaAllah tak nyesal nye. Kenangan lama tu pahit dan manis akan tetap diingatan tapi dgn kekasih skrg, baru melekat di hati!
Hey Adlan..
Ah.. cool.. Then boleh go the wedding lah kan..
Answer your qn. Manjalara now showing at Suria, Singapore channel every Sat 8.30pm.. but mcm lambat kan.. so tgk youtube.. hahaha! Mcm dah stuck pulak tgk story tu..
Brape banyak episodes eh?
:p
most of the series in Akasia mcm manjalara, bella, ezora and sutera maya (tak tau la suria nk beli citer2 ni ke tak) will be like 60 episod.
tapi kat malaysia tayang 4 hari seminggu. so dlm 4 bulan baru abes.
tapi kalo s’pore tayang 1 episod seminggu, alamatnya setahun pun tak abes..
LOL!
Skarang nie tgh tayang 2jam 2 episod pada hari sabtu..
tetapi lambat jugak.. hahaha!
adlan, i kinda a think you still have something for her.. dont u think this is emotionally challenging to your soul mate at the moment?
what about the gurl’s hubby? what might he think when he reads yr post, my friend?
maybe u say u dont hv anymo feelings, but your post… i dont know- i just have the feeling that u still have the hots for this gurl. or at least ‘something’.
youre not letting go. moving on means letting go and not announcing yr feelings to the whole world like this?
to conclude, go if u want to. dont go if u dont want to.
just my 2 cents. all the best for the finals ya
dear nabilahani, i dumped her because i want to let her go. but my writing here sucks. people still think i’m not moving on. i don’t know how to express what i feel here. i’m such a jerk right?
i’m sorry. i’ll not write anything about past relationship anymore.
insyaAllah I’ll attend her wedding. all the best for your finals and your wedding too!
adlan, i kinda a think you still have something for her.. dont u think this is emotionally challenging to your soul mate at the moment?
what about the gurl’s hubby? what might he think when he reads yr post, my friend?
maybe u say u dont hv anymo feelings, but your post… i dont know- i just have the feeling that u still have the hots for this gurl. or at least ‘something’.
youre not letting go. moving on means letting go and not announcing yr feelings to the whole world like this?
to conclude, go if u want to. dont go if u dont want to.
just my 2 cents. all the best for the finals ya
dear nabilahani, i dumped her because i want to let her go. but my writing here sucks. people still think i’m not moving on. i don’t know how to express what i feel here. i’m such a jerk right?
i’m sorry. i’ll not write anything about past relationship anymore.
insyaAllah I’ll attend her wedding. all the best for your finals and your wedding too!
wah..baca comments je dah tau cite..x yah baca entry pon…
my case..pas tak jadi dgn sorang mamat ni i sendiri carikan die yg lain…kami jadi kawan je…dah mmg tersurat takde jodoh…penah jugak i nak rekemenkan dia dgn kawan i sendiri…sbb at least i tau die kawen dengan sape nanti….dan i tak sanggup nk lost contact dengan mamat nie…entahla kenapa…huhu..
4 me..i akan attend wedding orang tuh..no big deal…kite kene la siap sedia unexpected things in our life….. n lagi satu..we live to learn… watever hapened in this life mengajar kite erti hidup..kite kene la belajar…dan berani menempuh hidup…cewah…
sory if out of topic..!!! kelam kabut baca komen2 tu pon…!!hehe
piece..:)
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ruang komen nmpknya lagi panjang dr entri asal.. hehe.
yep. seperti sy da jwb komen org lain, memang sy akan pergi. takpe.. tak out of topik pn. sabtu ni walimah nya.. taksabar nk jmpe kwn2 lama skali
wah..baca comments je dah tau cite..x yah baca entry pon…
my case..pas tak jadi dgn sorang mamat ni i sendiri carikan die yg lain…kami jadi kawan je…dah mmg tersurat takde jodoh…penah jugak i nak rekemenkan dia dgn kawan i sendiri…sbb at least i tau die kawen dengan sape nanti….dan i tak sanggup nk lost contact dengan mamat nie…entahla kenapa…huhu..
4 me..i akan attend wedding orang tuh..no big deal…kite kene la siap sedia unexpected things in our life….. n lagi satu..we live to learn… watever hapened in this life mengajar kite erti hidup..kite kene la belajar…dan berani menempuh hidup…cewah…
sory if out of topic..!!! kelam kabut baca komen2 tu pon…!!hehe
piece..:)
limaumaniss latest post: kebizian dan kerinduan yg melanda…
ruang komen nmpknya lagi panjang dr entri asal.. hehe.
yep. seperti sy da jwb komen org lain, memang sy akan pergi. takpe.. tak out of topik pn. sabtu ni walimah nya.. taksabar nk jmpe kwn2 lama skali
I just happened to pass by huhu..not really, saw u in my ym as ur status said something like this” i’m busy but u can go to my website” …..
somehow “she’s married, so?” caught my eyes ;P..(all the comments n ur response agak interesting utk dibaca walaupun agak panjang la jugak)
Alhamdulillah i heard that u went to her wedding today ..keputusan yg bijak my fwen =D. Just happened i called the bride b4 sy baca all this,just to congratulate her n say sorry coz for some reason i unable to attend her wedding (teringin nk jumpa, coz last jumpe after sek rend). .she’s mentioned about u, n she’s seems so happy to see u today, that’s all that matters =D
it’s win win situation i think, coz u might dpt hidayah or should i called dpt ‘seru’ utk naik pelamin x lama lg hehe..=P
Thanks for dropping by a comment in my blog. Yup. this is one of the hottest entry so far. I thought I’ll be seeing some of our schoolmate that day.
As long as I can cheer her, even just as a friend, that will do. That’s what friends are for right?
InsyaAllah, I’ll invite all of you guys, ex-schoolmate, ex-lovers to my wedding soon. (Soon la sangat!)
I just happened to pass by huhu..not really, saw u in my ym as ur status said something like this” i’m busy but u can go to my website” …..
somehow “she’s married, so?” caught my eyes ;P..(all the comments n ur response agak interesting utk dibaca walaupun agak panjang la jugak)
Alhamdulillah i heard that u went to her wedding today ..keputusan yg bijak my fwen =D. Just happened i called the bride b4 sy baca all this,just to congratulate her n say sorry coz for some reason i unable to attend her wedding (teringin nk jumpa, coz last jumpe after sek rend). .she’s mentioned about u, n she’s seems so happy to see u today, that’s all that matters =D
it’s win win situation i think, coz u might dpt hidayah or should i called dpt ‘seru’ utk naik pelamin x lama lg hehe..=P
Thanks for dropping by a comment in my blog. Yup. this is one of the hottest entry so far. I thought I’ll be seeing some of our schoolmate that day.
As long as I can cheer her, even just as a friend, that will do. That’s what friends are for right?
InsyaAllah, I’ll invite all of you guys, ex-schoolmate, ex-lovers to my wedding soon. (Soon la sangat!)
dear adlan, yeah ure right! best not to write about past relationships anymore- in public
and you’re not a jerk. just confused maybe?
afterall, the fundamentals of a successful relationship is trust and respect, right…. i know what you’re trying to express, just wanting to write memoribilias of the past, but shouldnt there be certain things that are best kept in your heart?
my two cents, please adlan, if u can, get out of the tangles of the past. reminisce if u want, but have certain ‘reservations’ u know… look to the present and future.
look at me, talking like im right je. sekadar memberi pendapat, coz as a girl, i would love it very much if hubby kept his old flames away from my attention…………..
whatever it is, you know what’s best for you and how to make you and her work
i akan mendoakan kalian, ya!
OK. thanks for your advice. I’ll become a better person, think rational and get matured. The past will always stays in my mind. Yeah, need some reservations too.
Maybe I can just chat with my close friend, no need to publish such a disturbing entry like this one.. hehe
Thanks. Sorry about the postpone of your wedding. Don’t forget to invite me yeah?
dear adlan, yeah ure right! best not to write about past relationships anymore- in public
and you’re not a jerk. just confused maybe?
afterall, the fundamentals of a successful relationship is trust and respect, right…. i know what you’re trying to express, just wanting to write memoribilias of the past, but shouldnt there be certain things that are best kept in your heart?
my two cents, please adlan, if u can, get out of the tangles of the past. reminisce if u want, but have certain ‘reservations’ u know… look to the present and future.
look at me, talking like im right je. sekadar memberi pendapat, coz as a girl, i would love it very much if hubby kept his old flames away from my attention…………..
whatever it is, you know what’s best for you and how to make you and her work
i akan mendoakan kalian, ya!
OK. thanks for your advice. I’ll become a better person, think rational and get matured. The past will always stays in my mind. Yeah, need some reservations too.
Maybe I can just chat with my close friend, no need to publish such a disturbing entry like this one.. hehe
Thanks. Sorry about the postpone of your wedding. Don’t forget to invite me yeah?
ilek br0..jgn sdey2..1st luv mang indah..i knew it..dlu mase kt mciium, sy masyuk kt sorg pmpn ni..kokonnya 1st luv la kn..tp x pnah bjmpe sbb malu n sgan..klu jmpe pn dari jauh..tgk2 cmtu je..sbb my studio ngn her stdio sbelah myebelah je..hehe.. then after bout 6 months (kot) ktorg sms,mms,call,chat..kira cm rapat la..tbe2 my nset ilang..kna curi. sbb sy ttinggal nset kt lam locker masa nk g slt jmaat..khilangn nset tu umpama khilangn die..sdey yg amat trse bkn sbb ilang nset..sbb lpas sy pki nset baru pn dia da mhilangkan diri..camtu je.. mujurla kt sblah blik ni ada “abg ketenangan”… kurangla cket rase pdih lpas talk ngn die..0h..itu cte laen. pendek cte,pmpn itu lesap bgtu saje tnpa berita..sy kontek dia x lyn..so sy pun blah..rupe2 ye dia da ada sorg yg lg spesel..em..wat more can i do? so,sy pk blik,pe gna nya brarap pd org yg xm0 kta…wpun shes my 1st love? eh..da da cte sdey. n n0w, dia da clash, she is my juni0r..wat more can i say? more than dat, tiada lg rase sgan n malu spti dahulu..sbb dia hnya sorg yg biase, bkn lg spesel. -n_n-
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wah. kisah cinta time matric ye. takpe bro. kita belajar dari pengalaman. tapi bukankah lebih baik jika teruskan berkawan walaupun takde pape hubungan dah.. teruskan perjuangan dan cinta yang Sejati k..
ilek br0..jgn sdey2..1st luv mang indah..i knew it..dlu mase kt mciium, sy masyuk kt sorg pmpn ni..kokonnya 1st luv la kn..tp x pnah bjmpe sbb malu n sgan..klu jmpe pn dari jauh..tgk2 cmtu je..sbb my studio ngn her stdio sbelah myebelah je..hehe.. then after bout 6 months (kot) ktorg sms,mms,call,chat..kira cm rapat la..tbe2 my nset ilang..kna curi. sbb sy ttinggal nset kt lam locker masa nk g slt jmaat..khilangn nset tu umpama khilangn die..sdey yg amat trse bkn sbb ilang nset..sbb lpas sy pki nset baru pn dia da mhilangkan diri..camtu je.. mujurla kt sblah blik ni ada “abg ketenangan”… kurangla cket rase pdih lpas talk ngn die..0h..itu cte laen. pendek cte,pmpn itu lesap bgtu saje tnpa berita..sy kontek dia x lyn..so sy pun blah..rupe2 ye dia da ada sorg yg lg spesel..em..wat more can i do? so,sy pk blik,pe gna nya brarap pd org yg xm0 kta…wpun shes my 1st love? eh..da da cte sdey. n n0w, dia da clash, she is my juni0r..wat more can i say? more than dat, tiada lg rase sgan n malu spti dahulu..sbb dia hnya sorg yg biase, bkn lg spesel. -n_n-
skeb00lat latest post: malam yang kukira merenggut keindahan
wah. kisah cinta time matric ye. takpe bro. kita belajar dari pengalaman. tapi bukankah lebih baik jika teruskan berkawan walaupun takde pape hubungan dah.. teruskan perjuangan dan cinta yang Sejati k..