Pre-Marriage Course

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Salam. I’ve been to Pre-Marriage Course on 29th to 30th March 2009. The course is organised by S-DEV and JAIS in Main Auditorium IIUM. I guess getting the certificate is like the first step to the gate of marriage.

Haha. I don’t know how to say it. Its been almost a month since the program. Let me recap whether I still can recall it or not.

Most wanted program

I have always wanted to attend pre-marriage course. When I was in my third year, I guess it is still too early. But then when I’m in my fourth year, I have to go for practical. Then there’s only one semester left. I’m glad that the date does not clash with other programs or project submission. Most of the participants will come along with their partners. But you still can attend eventhough you don’t have one yet.

Price rate

Besides that, I wanted to go to this course during my study years because I can get it cheaper than going for the same course outside UIA. For instance, students and staff in UIA only have to pay RM35 for registration fee including meals and the modules. Out there, each participant will have to pay about RM80 for the same thing. So, which one is cheaper?

Modules

There are few modules which cover every aspect of the marriage. Before, during and after (read: divorce) but nobody wants to get married to get divorce. Personally, I’m pretty sad if someone is getting divorce because of misunderstanding or no chemistry. Well, it is all written up there in Lauh Mahfuz.

They also covers the aspect of Ibadah and Aqidah but the elaboration is not very clear. After all, most of the speaker will be sharing their experience in handling cases in religious department.

Sex education

During the health talk, the speaker shared many disturbing images and videos. Personally, I don’t like seeing anything under the skin because the meat and the internal organs do disgust me. I just have to watch the videos because sooner or later, I’ll have to face it myself. I’ll get married soon and my wife will have to carry my children. I hope that I can be with her to show my love and support. Well, it is scary though. Many girls don’t watch it.

To conclude, if the speaker can make jokes, its going to be fun. But most of the time, the speaker is not that funny. Guess that’s why Chazzie don’t give a damn about it.

Next, I have to work hard and save a lot of money before I can getting married. Its hard to get a job during recession.
Wish me luck!

77 thoughts on “Pre-Marriage Course”

  1. haha… alan… i was about to go to the same marriage course that you’d attended… but then de hal plak mser tu…. huhu.. xpela next time my be..hehe.. very informative post by the way.. gooood… i hope that u’ll be a good husband..insya’allah…

    angah dayah latest post: :::HoMySiCkO:::

  2. haha… alan… i was about to go to the same marriage course that you’d attended… but then de hal plak mser tu…. huhu.. xpela next time my be..hehe.. very informative post by the way.. gooood… i hope that u’ll be a good husband..insya’allah…

    angah dayah latest post: :::HoMySiCkO:::

  3. i went last year, same reasons..cheaper with same modules and everything. dont like to watch the video too…ngee~

    kursus itu mjadi detik sejarah dimana Chazz tak mau ingat langsung, kan? huhu~

    1. Haha. kak nana pun tak ske tengok kan.. berat mati memandang berat lagi bahu memikul.. tu pasal la Chazz lagi layan MP3 korea2 dari talk tu.

      nyesal tak bawak headset.

  4. i went last year, same reasons..cheaper with same modules and everything. dont like to watch the video too…ngee~

    kursus itu mjadi detik sejarah dimana Chazz tak mau ingat langsung, kan? huhu~

    1. Haha. kak nana pun tak ske tengok kan.. berat mati memandang berat lagi bahu memikul.. tu pasal la Chazz lagi layan MP3 korea2 dari talk tu.

      nyesal tak bawak headset.

    1. oops sori Chazz. diorang yang start dulu.. haha.. layan je..

      jadi fresh grad ni tak best sebab org suke tanya bila nak start keje.. tak ske..

    1. oops sori Chazz. diorang yang start dulu.. haha.. layan je..

      jadi fresh grad ni tak best sebab org suke tanya bila nak start keje.. tak ske..

    1. baiti, lain kali rajin2 la baca poster2 n banner yang ada kat UIA tu. tapi. kamu kan banyak masa lagi.. blum lagi nk kawen kan…

    1. baiti, lain kali rajin2 la baca poster2 n banner yang ada kat UIA tu. tapi. kamu kan banyak masa lagi.. blum lagi nk kawen kan…

  5. oh, miss baiti tak tau? rasenye dia ade tampal kat hampir smua mahalah..hmm~ takpe. insya-Allah ade lagi kursus tu πŸ™‚

    chazz,
    ne ade kutuk…. XD

  6. oh, miss baiti tak tau? rasenye dia ade tampal kat hampir smua mahalah..hmm~ takpe. insya-Allah ade lagi kursus tu πŸ™‚

    chazz,
    ne ade kutuk…. XD

    1. actually, the pre-marriage course certificate is also the requirements to get married. takde sijil takleh kawen..

    1. actually, the pre-marriage course certificate is also the requirements to get married. takde sijil takleh kawen..

  7. hem hem. i may talk big about other stuff. provocative regarding certain matters. offensive about most. tapi kursus ni kak nani belum pergi, i have no experience whatsoever in relationships other than blood and friendship, so i guess i wont be able to comment sarcastically this time.

    murah ye?

    mungkin kak nani patut attend benda ni.

    hehe.

    adlan. you have to comment on my latest entry. i specifically demand your POV on it!

    1. I thought you have engaged with someone?

      you should attend this before your marriage. kalo takde sijil takleh kawen tau.. πŸ˜›

      I don’t mind your sarcastic comment. People around me always think of me as a sarcastic guy. but i don’t really express it in my blog. πŸ˜›

  8. hem hem. i may talk big about other stuff. provocative regarding certain matters. offensive about most. tapi kursus ni kak nani belum pergi, i have no experience whatsoever in relationships other than blood and friendship, so i guess i wont be able to comment sarcastically this time.

    murah ye?

    mungkin kak nani patut attend benda ni.

    hehe.

    adlan. you have to comment on my latest entry. i specifically demand your POV on it!

    1. I thought you have engaged with someone?

      you should attend this before your marriage. kalo takde sijil takleh kawen tau.. πŸ˜›

      I don’t mind your sarcastic comment. People around me always think of me as a sarcastic guy. but i don’t really express it in my blog. πŸ˜›

  9. moga segala ilmu yg dipelajari dpt dipraktikkan di mase dpn(cam skema plak ayat ni) hehe..kne ingat sgala ilmu tu.klau x, kne re-kursus kawen kang. (cam re-taaruf plak..?hik3)

    dan moga kita akan sentiasa redha dgn sape2 yg Allah telah tetapkan sbg jodoh kita.segala cacat cela kebaikan dan keburukan diterima seadanya. segala nikmat dan musibah yg diberikan adalah ujian dr Nya. kita sebagai manusia selalu lupa bhw:
    pengharapan hanyalah pd Nya.

  10. moga segala ilmu yg dipelajari dpt dipraktikkan di mase dpn(cam skema plak ayat ni) hehe..kne ingat sgala ilmu tu.klau x, kne re-kursus kawen kang. (cam re-taaruf plak..?hik3)

    dan moga kita akan sentiasa redha dgn sape2 yg Allah telah tetapkan sbg jodoh kita.segala cacat cela kebaikan dan keburukan diterima seadanya. segala nikmat dan musibah yg diberikan adalah ujian dr Nya. kita sebagai manusia selalu lupa bhw:
    pengharapan hanyalah pd Nya.

  11. nana pon maw pegi pre marriage course ni XD. dengar org ckp, lagi murah dr amek kat luar, kan? videos.. XD. xapa, nana boleh tutup mata XD hehe

  12. nana pon maw pegi pre marriage course ni XD. dengar org ckp, lagi murah dr amek kat luar, kan? videos.. XD. xapa, nana boleh tutup mata XD hehe

    1. actually, itu video perempuan sedang bersalin. ada jugak video bersalin guna scissor.. so agak scary la jugak.. pernah tengok ke?

    2. adlan, bukan scissor tp caesar la.using d caesarean method.

      hm tu la nk komen gak.ble bace entri di atas u didnt realy explain in detail what the disturbing images n videos are under the category sex education tu. hehe so org pun x tau ape yg scary sgt.

      hm dari dlu mmg takut nk tgk video org bersalin. kalau bersalin sendiri myb x takut kot sbb bukannye nmpak bnda2 yg menakutkan yg berlaku kat bawah tu.hik3.ntah2 si husband yg pengsan.

    3. amboi. kasar ek.. hehe.. tula pasal. terlupa pulak nak explain ape yang dilihat. entri ni khusus untuk orang yang da pergi kursus kawen la.. hehe

    4. kasar?ape yg kasar? x paham.
      ooh..wat2 lupa nak explain plak.
      la bleh plak wat entri khusus utk org yg dah pegi kursus kawen aje? sian kat org lain.isy3

    1. actually, itu video perempuan sedang bersalin. ada jugak video bersalin guna scissor.. so agak scary la jugak.. pernah tengok ke?

    2. adlan, bukan scissor tp caesar la.using d caesarean method.

      hm tu la nk komen gak.ble bace entri di atas u didnt realy explain in detail what the disturbing images n videos are under the category sex education tu. hehe so org pun x tau ape yg scary sgt.

      hm dari dlu mmg takut nk tgk video org bersalin. kalau bersalin sendiri myb x takut kot sbb bukannye nmpak bnda2 yg menakutkan yg berlaku kat bawah tu.hik3.ntah2 si husband yg pengsan.

    3. amboi. kasar ek.. hehe.. tula pasal. terlupa pulak nak explain ape yang dilihat. entri ni khusus untuk orang yang da pergi kursus kawen la.. hehe

    4. kasar?ape yg kasar? x paham.
      ooh..wat2 lupa nak explain plak.
      la bleh plak wat entri khusus utk org yg dah pegi kursus kawen aje? sian kat org lain.isy3

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