She’s married, so?

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I don’t know how to say this. Its a mixed feeling. This is quite personal. But I just wanna share what I’m feeling right now.

First of all, who is she? She was my first love, em first girlfriend. She’s married. So what? Of course I’m happy to see her with some guy, who is better than me.

I’m not a good guy. I was a big player and I deserve that, I mean I deserve the punishment. Our relationship last for four years and then I dumped her. But I still want to be her friend. But now she’s somebody’s wife, so we still can be friends.


I was naive and I always had in my mind that it just a puppy love. There’s no future in it. Here’s some quote for your thought.

“First romance, first love, is something so special to all of us, both emotionally and physically, that it touches our lives and enriches them forever.” – Rosemary Rogers

But now I’ve changed. Distance should be no problem in a relationship as long as both of us have faith in each other.

Back to the question. She’s married, so what should I do when attending her wedding ceremony? I hope you guys can give some suggestion.Thanks.

P/S – Credit to Ijam for the wedding picture. Its not her anyway. But I love the composition.

160 thoughts on “She’s married, so?”

  1. err..penah alami.Tp gurl ni aku tekel xdapat.. so frust menongeng.. bila dia invite g majlis kahwin aku cakap ;

    err..sorry, sy xde kat sini time wedding tu sebab i have urgent meeting at labuan.. so, wish u congrats ..lah.”

    maknenya, tolak dengan cara lembut. Kalu pergi pn xguna.. πŸ™‚

  2. err..penah alami.Tp gurl ni aku tekel xdapat.. so frust menongeng.. bila dia invite g majlis kahwin aku cakap ;

    err..sorry, sy xde kat sini time wedding tu sebab i have urgent meeting at labuan.. so, wish u congrats ..lah.”

    maknenya, tolak dengan cara lembut. Kalu pergi pn xguna.. πŸ™‚

  3. if me…i’ll try my best to attend the wedding. it’s your FRIEND’S wed. but if u know deep down inside u might feel uncomfortable in attending the wed, so don’t come. it’s ur choice.

  4. if me…i’ll try my best to attend the wedding. it’s your FRIEND’S wed. but if u know deep down inside u might feel uncomfortable in attending the wed, so don’t come. it’s ur choice.

  5. Fuuhhhhhh..panas nihh….hmm..i always wonder too what I would do when one day nanti my ex invite me to his wedding..he was a big time player too..perasan dia hebat and macho…then he dumped me..now he’s constantly asking my grandma how I am doing..well fine lah of course, i’ve moved on..but anyway…if it were me…being the one who was dump, I would rather do something else than going to my ex wedding.

    Maybe your ex sent you the card because she wanted to show you that she’s moved on. First love. Who could forget. Not even me.

    zalikha just blog about Al-fatihah

    1. yeah. i’ve moved on. since i’m the one who’s dumped her. so i think i’ll come. the funny thing is that, i’m just bored with her that’s why i left her. not that i’ve cheated on her..

      see. i’m still a good guy eh? πŸ˜› poyo

  6. Fuuhhhhhh..panas nihh….hmm..i always wonder too what I would do when one day nanti my ex invite me to his wedding..he was a big time player too..perasan dia hebat and macho…then he dumped me..now he’s constantly asking my grandma how I am doing..well fine lah of course, i’ve moved on..but anyway…if it were me…being the one who was dump, I would rather do something else than going to my ex wedding.

    Maybe your ex sent you the card because she wanted to show you that she’s moved on. First love. Who could forget. Not even me.

    zalikha just blog about Al-fatihah

    1. yeah. i’ve moved on. since i’m the one who’s dumped her. so i think i’ll come. the funny thing is that, i’m just bored with her that’s why i left her. not that i’ve cheated on her..

      see. i’m still a good guy eh? πŸ˜› poyo

    1. ala.. nak pegi jugak! da lama tak jumpa dia..
      rasanya tak sakit ati pun..
      sebab aku yg dump dia kan.. bukan dia yang salah pun.. hehe

  7. go, go to her wedding. she doesn’t forget you, and you too, rite?
    kdg2 tu tak semestinye kena bersatu bila kita syg/chenta dgn seseorang tu. kiranya org itu bahagia dn gembira dgn teman baru, kita pun patut rasa bahagia sbb org yg kite syg/chenta tu bahagia, iye tak??

    and that’s what I keep on doing all these times πŸ™‚

    1. yep. good point. saya pun rasa bahagia sbb dia da jumpe dgn Mr. Right dia. I’m just the Mr. Wrong.. not Mr. Wong.. hehe

      rasa tak seronok kalo dia still harap kat kita.. tapi dia harapkn kedatangan ku jugak.. ish3.. tak jeles ke hubby dia nnt

    2. eyh..i think she invited u, the guy yg dump dye cos nk let u c how rugi u are for dumping her, and how bahagie shes now after being left by you.
      this is a girl telling u of wats in typical women’s mind in case u dont get it right.

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  8. go, go to her wedding. she doesn’t forget you, and you too, rite?
    kdg2 tu tak semestinye kena bersatu bila kita syg/chenta dgn seseorang tu. kiranya org itu bahagia dn gembira dgn teman baru, kita pun patut rasa bahagia sbb org yg kite syg/chenta tu bahagia, iye tak??

    and that’s what I keep on doing all these times πŸ™‚

    1. yep. good point. saya pun rasa bahagia sbb dia da jumpe dgn Mr. Right dia. I’m just the Mr. Wrong.. not Mr. Wong.. hehe

      rasa tak seronok kalo dia still harap kat kita.. tapi dia harapkn kedatangan ku jugak.. ish3.. tak jeles ke hubby dia nnt

    2. eyh..i think she invited u, the guy yg dump dye cos nk let u c how rugi u are for dumping her, and how bahagie shes now after being left by you.
      this is a girl telling u of wats in typical women’s mind in case u dont get it right.

      d Third Child latest post: Happy Birthday to Me!!!

    1. hm.. tula. nk kene plan beli hadiah plak.

      mana boleh salam bro. haram.. dia bini orang..

      actly da agak kamu masih bujang. sbb tak pernah ada entri berkaitan perkahwinan dan family lagi.. ke aku terlepas baca?

    2. owh.. beli hadiah yang simple ajerr… berlambak di pasaran… kalau nak bagi hadiah yang akan menggembirakan mereka berdua di masa yang sama boleh habis supaya dia TIDAK terkenang kenang hadiah tu dari kamu , beri dia hadiah bentuk makanan seperti coklat (free from melamin laa hehehe)… mesti dorang berdua suka… ahaks

      I’m not sure the custom there in semenanjung… kalau kat sini… bila nak balik, jumpa pengantin salam (tak semestinya salam berdua, salam lelaki jak laa.. yang perempuan tu kita senyum jak dan wish selamat pengantin baru) bg duit atau hadiah pastu balik… hehehe

      Yeap aku masih bujang … entri bab kahwin kahwin ada tp semua kengkawan aku jerrr.. hehehe…

      adry just blog about Love VS Lust.. are you in love or lust?

    1. yeah. i’m a guy that really value his friendship. especially those with the loved ones.. its not that i’m gonna run away from her forever rite?

    1. hm.. tula. nk kene plan beli hadiah plak.

      mana boleh salam bro. haram.. dia bini orang..

      actly da agak kamu masih bujang. sbb tak pernah ada entri berkaitan perkahwinan dan family lagi.. ke aku terlepas baca?

    2. owh.. beli hadiah yang simple ajerr… berlambak di pasaran… kalau nak bagi hadiah yang akan menggembirakan mereka berdua di masa yang sama boleh habis supaya dia TIDAK terkenang kenang hadiah tu dari kamu , beri dia hadiah bentuk makanan seperti coklat (free from melamin laa hehehe)… mesti dorang berdua suka… ahaks

      I’m not sure the custom there in semenanjung… kalau kat sini… bila nak balik, jumpa pengantin salam (tak semestinya salam berdua, salam lelaki jak laa.. yang perempuan tu kita senyum jak dan wish selamat pengantin baru) bg duit atau hadiah pastu balik… hehehe

      Yeap aku masih bujang … entri bab kahwin kahwin ada tp semua kengkawan aku jerrr.. hehehe…

      adry just blog about Love VS Lust.. are you in love or lust?

    1. yeah. i’m a guy that really value his friendship. especially those with the loved ones.. its not that i’m gonna run away from her forever rite?

  9. hrmm.. klo ko rasa bila pegi cam saket gila ati ko, baik takyah pegi
    you dont hv to deal with everything
    find ur way out of it hehe

    klo ko rilex je, pegi la kenduri dia πŸ˜€
    ko tanak pegi.. aku nak!! hahaha

    Adila just blog about Survivor.. am I?

    1. amboi. ko plak nk pegi wakilkan aku.. takleh2 πŸ˜›

      aku kan rilex je.. (yeke?) mesti la nak pegi
      org da ajak makan nasi minyak free kan?

      takde la sakit ati. kisah lama. da lupa da pun. keke

  10. hrmm.. klo ko rasa bila pegi cam saket gila ati ko, baik takyah pegi
    you dont hv to deal with everything
    find ur way out of it hehe

    klo ko rilex je, pegi la kenduri dia πŸ˜€
    ko tanak pegi.. aku nak!! hahaha

    Adila just blog about Survivor.. am I?

    1. amboi. ko plak nk pegi wakilkan aku.. takleh2 πŸ˜›

      aku kan rilex je.. (yeke?) mesti la nak pegi
      org da ajak makan nasi minyak free kan?

      takde la sakit ati. kisah lama. da lupa da pun. keke

  11. Its obviously u are still in love wif her…**hehe..juz my tots onli..ngehngeh**

    well, juz act mcm biase jek arr if lan attend wed die nnti…
    bring some prezzie n congrats her…

    neway..its really damn hard arr bile cinta x bsatu but in ur heart both of u know that it still exist for each other…tp e2 lah…kdgΒ² cinta x semestinya bersatu..

    adehhh…zie tersayu lak dh neh coz…hemprhhh. Ye la kan…cinta x semestinya besatu…sobsobsob πŸ™

    Pwnchess Redbloodsnow just blog about Yahooooo!!! Faster Moving Dahhh πŸ˜›

    1. haha. no la. i don’t love her like i did yesterday.. (lagu MCR)

      love da takde tapi kasih sayang still ada. tapi batas sbg kawan jela..

      ala zie touching2 plak. jgn sedih2 ye. nah amek tisu ni lap hingus.. kekeke

    2. the thing is u cant let her go freely frm ur heart, frm ur mind, frm ur life, in all, becos of ur egocentrism.
      u fell challenged sbb dye ke jinjg pelamin dlu, kan?! kan!
      this is an observer telling u in case u do not realize.

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  12. Its obviously u are still in love wif her…**hehe..juz my tots onli..ngehngeh**

    well, juz act mcm biase jek arr if lan attend wed die nnti…
    bring some prezzie n congrats her…

    neway..its really damn hard arr bile cinta x bsatu but in ur heart both of u know that it still exist for each other…tp e2 lah…kdgΒ² cinta x semestinya bersatu..

    adehhh…zie tersayu lak dh neh coz…hemprhhh. Ye la kan…cinta x semestinya besatu…sobsobsob πŸ™

    Pwnchess Redbloodsnow just blog about Yahooooo!!! Faster Moving Dahhh πŸ˜›

    1. haha. no la. i don’t love her like i did yesterday.. (lagu MCR)

      love da takde tapi kasih sayang still ada. tapi batas sbg kawan jela..

      ala zie touching2 plak. jgn sedih2 ye. nah amek tisu ni lap hingus.. kekeke

    2. the thing is u cant let her go freely frm ur heart, frm ur mind, frm ur life, in all, becos of ur egocentrism.
      u fell challenged sbb dye ke jinjg pelamin dlu, kan?! kan!
      this is an observer telling u in case u do not realize.

      d Third Child latest post: Happy Birthday to Me!!!

  13. I would say, better NOT GO. Simply because, it’s a BIG day for her. So, you don’t want to see her feeling guilty or anything on that day right? She may not have ANY feelings LEFT for you, but normally, people would still indulge in guilt. Yes, she invited you. But she would look like a terrible person if she didn’t. But don’t go. Just give excuse like Shino. Hehe.

    atreyu strange just blog about Psychological Hazards at the Workplace

    1. aiya atreyu strange.. i really want to go. but what you say is quite true.. i like your point. but i’ll think about it later k. thx!

  14. I would say, better NOT GO. Simply because, it’s a BIG day for her. So, you don’t want to see her feeling guilty or anything on that day right? She may not have ANY feelings LEFT for you, but normally, people would still indulge in guilt. Yes, she invited you. But she would look like a terrible person if she didn’t. But don’t go. Just give excuse like Shino. Hehe.

    atreyu strange just blog about Psychological Hazards at the Workplace

  15. Your predicament is captured by the Rosemary Rogers’ quote and what pre-Islamic Arab poet Qays said: “Malhubu illa-lil-habibi-al-awwali” (Love can’t be except for the first one). It is hard to forget that first one, hard indeed, but there is need to move on brother. As far as my advice, if you have been officially invited, you MUST attend because Islam requires that and makes it compulsory unless you have got a genuine reason. But your spirit will be dampened, I think you need to relax and send some “genuine” excuses. Or if the invitationwas to “belittle” you in the sense that she wanted to show you that she has moved on (without you), then shoot it down and stay at home.

    1. Thanks bro Rashid. I like your explanation. I’ll think about it again because the wedding will be in another two weeks.

      I hope she doesn’t mean to ‘belittle’ me because I also had moved on. Thanks again.

  16. Your predicament is captured by the Rosemary Rogers’ quote and what pre-Islamic Arab poet Qays said: “Malhubu illa-lil-habibi-al-awwali” (Love can’t be except for the first one). It is hard to forget that first one, hard indeed, but there is need to move on brother. As far as my advice, if you have been officially invited, you MUST attend because Islam requires that and makes it compulsory unless you have got a genuine reason. But your spirit will be dampened, I think you need to relax and send some “genuine” excuses. Or if the invitationwas to “belittle” you in the sense that she wanted to show you that she has moved on (without you), then shoot it down and stay at home.

    1. Thanks bro Rashid. I like your explanation. I’ll think about it again because the wedding will be in another two weeks.

      I hope she doesn’t mean to ‘belittle’ me because I also had moved on. Thanks again.

  17. Just attend the ceremony and be happy becos she is ur friend.

    Just forget about the first love thingy. In fact, FIRST LOVE IS NOT ALWAYS THE BEST!

    You’ll find other person. Yg lepas tu jadikan pengajaran. Bukan jadikan bahan kejaran. Silap tuh.

    So now she’s married, just be cool.

    Knowlee just blog about Kenapa aku bersyukur jadi perempuan?

    1. Yeah be cool like how I used to be. Takkan nak jiwa kacau pun.

      InsyaAllah I’ve already found another one and I’ll try to keep this one till my last breath.

      Since she’s my friend, I’ll try to attend her wedding. Just be cool aight?

  18. Just attend the ceremony and be happy becos she is ur friend.

    Just forget about the first love thingy. In fact, FIRST LOVE IS NOT ALWAYS THE BEST!

    You’ll find other person. Yg lepas tu jadikan pengajaran. Bukan jadikan bahan kejaran. Silap tuh.

    So now she’s married, just be cool.

    Knowlee just blog about Kenapa aku bersyukur jadi perempuan?

    1. Yeah be cool like how I used to be. Takkan nak jiwa kacau pun.

      InsyaAllah I’ve already found another one and I’ll try to keep this one till my last breath.

      Since she’s my friend, I’ll try to attend her wedding. Just be cool aight?

    1. aiya wilsopn. she’s already married la. its just the ceremony is another next two weeks. not good la to grab somebody’s wife.. huhu

    1. aiya wilsopn. she’s already married la. its just the ceremony is another next two weeks. not good la to grab somebody’s wife.. huhu

  19. wow..saya tak dapat bayangkan jika saya ditempat kamu..yupp..cinta pertama..begitu sukar dilupakan. Tapi, since dia dah jemput, patutla kamu pergi ke majlisnya itu. Tunjukkan kamu dah ok atas apa yang berlaku. Bawakla kawan2 sekali ke sana ok…just go adlan!! πŸ™‚

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    1. yep. semua setuju saya pergi. tgh tunggu kad ucapan sampai rumah. nk tau jugak lokasi dewannya.. kawan da ajak utk teman. cuma blum bli hadiah lg..

  20. wow..saya tak dapat bayangkan jika saya ditempat kamu..yupp..cinta pertama..begitu sukar dilupakan. Tapi, since dia dah jemput, patutla kamu pergi ke majlisnya itu. Tunjukkan kamu dah ok atas apa yang berlaku. Bawakla kawan2 sekali ke sana ok…just go adlan!! πŸ™‚

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    1. yep. semua setuju saya pergi. tgh tunggu kad ucapan sampai rumah. nk tau jugak lokasi dewannya.. kawan da ajak utk teman. cuma blum bli hadiah lg..

    1. yeah.. mesti mau teruskan…
      bunga memang banyak. tapi bunga untuk dipetik dan disemat dlm hati ke akhir hayat tu susah nk cari tau.. mujurla da jumpa.. πŸ˜›

    1. yeah.. mesti mau teruskan…
      bunga memang banyak. tapi bunga untuk dipetik dan disemat dlm hati ke akhir hayat tu susah nk cari tau.. mujurla da jumpa.. πŸ˜›

  21. bunga bukan sekuntum… insha allah you’ll find someone much much better than her. things happened for some reasons.. and only allah knows better.. πŸ˜‰

  22. bunga bukan sekuntum… insha allah you’ll find someone much much better than her. things happened for some reasons.. and only allah knows better.. πŸ˜‰

  23. Hey.. I just happened to pass by..

    If I were you, I wouldn’t go. And like the rest of the above comments, I will just say that I’m out of town. Then send congrats and a gift to her.

    Apasal saya rasa awak tak payah pergi? Sebabnya.. nanti terpandang wajahnya, you will remember all the good times spent together.. nanti start menyesal lah pulak kan… πŸ™‚

    So better safe than sorry. No need to go but at the same time be polite to wish her moga2 berkekalan hingga ke akhir hayat…

    πŸ™‚

    1. hi kinn.. thanks for passing by.

      Em, thanks for your comment too. really appreciate it. I think its OK since we don’t really have good times together. insyaAllah tak nyesal nye. Kenangan lama tu pahit dan manis akan tetap diingatan tapi dgn kekasih skrg, baru melekat di hati!

    2. Hey Adlan..

      Ah.. cool.. Then boleh go the wedding lah kan..

      Answer your qn. Manjalara now showing at Suria, Singapore channel every Sat 8.30pm.. but mcm lambat kan.. so tgk youtube.. hahaha! Mcm dah stuck pulak tgk story tu..

      Brape banyak episodes eh?

      :p

    3. most of the series in Akasia mcm manjalara, bella, ezora and sutera maya (tak tau la suria nk beli citer2 ni ke tak) will be like 60 episod.
      tapi kat malaysia tayang 4 hari seminggu. so dlm 4 bulan baru abes.

      tapi kalo s’pore tayang 1 episod seminggu, alamatnya setahun pun tak abes..

  24. Hey.. I just happened to pass by..

    If I were you, I wouldn’t go. And like the rest of the above comments, I will just say that I’m out of town. Then send congrats and a gift to her.

    Apasal saya rasa awak tak payah pergi? Sebabnya.. nanti terpandang wajahnya, you will remember all the good times spent together.. nanti start menyesal lah pulak kan… πŸ™‚

    So better safe than sorry. No need to go but at the same time be polite to wish her moga2 berkekalan hingga ke akhir hayat…

    πŸ™‚

    1. hi kinn.. thanks for passing by.

      Em, thanks for your comment too. really appreciate it. I think its OK since we don’t really have good times together. insyaAllah tak nyesal nye. Kenangan lama tu pahit dan manis akan tetap diingatan tapi dgn kekasih skrg, baru melekat di hati!

    2. Hey Adlan..

      Ah.. cool.. Then boleh go the wedding lah kan..

      Answer your qn. Manjalara now showing at Suria, Singapore channel every Sat 8.30pm.. but mcm lambat kan.. so tgk youtube.. hahaha! Mcm dah stuck pulak tgk story tu..

      Brape banyak episodes eh?

      :p

    3. most of the series in Akasia mcm manjalara, bella, ezora and sutera maya (tak tau la suria nk beli citer2 ni ke tak) will be like 60 episod.
      tapi kat malaysia tayang 4 hari seminggu. so dlm 4 bulan baru abes.

      tapi kalo s’pore tayang 1 episod seminggu, alamatnya setahun pun tak abes..

  25. adlan, i kinda a think you still have something for her.. dont u think this is emotionally challenging to your soul mate at the moment?

    what about the gurl’s hubby? what might he think when he reads yr post, my friend?

    maybe u say u dont hv anymo feelings, but your post… i dont know- i just have the feeling that u still have the hots for this gurl. or at least ‘something’.

    youre not letting go. moving on means letting go and not announcing yr feelings to the whole world like this?

    to conclude, go if u want to. dont go if u dont want to.

    just my 2 cents. all the best for the finals ya

    1. dear nabilahani, i dumped her because i want to let her go. but my writing here sucks. people still think i’m not moving on. i don’t know how to express what i feel here. i’m such a jerk right?

      i’m sorry. i’ll not write anything about past relationship anymore.

      insyaAllah I’ll attend her wedding. all the best for your finals and your wedding too!

  26. adlan, i kinda a think you still have something for her.. dont u think this is emotionally challenging to your soul mate at the moment?

    what about the gurl’s hubby? what might he think when he reads yr post, my friend?

    maybe u say u dont hv anymo feelings, but your post… i dont know- i just have the feeling that u still have the hots for this gurl. or at least ‘something’.

    youre not letting go. moving on means letting go and not announcing yr feelings to the whole world like this?

    to conclude, go if u want to. dont go if u dont want to.

    just my 2 cents. all the best for the finals ya

    1. dear nabilahani, i dumped her because i want to let her go. but my writing here sucks. people still think i’m not moving on. i don’t know how to express what i feel here. i’m such a jerk right?

      i’m sorry. i’ll not write anything about past relationship anymore.

      insyaAllah I’ll attend her wedding. all the best for your finals and your wedding too!

  27. wah..baca comments je dah tau cite..x yah baca entry pon…
    my case..pas tak jadi dgn sorang mamat ni i sendiri carikan die yg lain…kami jadi kawan je…dah mmg tersurat takde jodoh…penah jugak i nak rekemenkan dia dgn kawan i sendiri…sbb at least i tau die kawen dengan sape nanti….dan i tak sanggup nk lost contact dengan mamat nie…entahla kenapa…huhu..

    4 me..i akan attend wedding orang tuh..no big deal…kite kene la siap sedia unexpected things in our life….. n lagi satu..we live to learn… watever hapened in this life mengajar kite erti hidup..kite kene la belajar…dan berani menempuh hidup…cewah…

    sory if out of topic..!!! kelam kabut baca komen2 tu pon…!!hehe

    piece..:)

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    1. ruang komen nmpknya lagi panjang dr entri asal.. hehe.

      yep. seperti sy da jwb komen org lain, memang sy akan pergi. takpe.. tak out of topik pn. sabtu ni walimah nya.. taksabar nk jmpe kwn2 lama skali

  28. wah..baca comments je dah tau cite..x yah baca entry pon…
    my case..pas tak jadi dgn sorang mamat ni i sendiri carikan die yg lain…kami jadi kawan je…dah mmg tersurat takde jodoh…penah jugak i nak rekemenkan dia dgn kawan i sendiri…sbb at least i tau die kawen dengan sape nanti….dan i tak sanggup nk lost contact dengan mamat nie…entahla kenapa…huhu..

    4 me..i akan attend wedding orang tuh..no big deal…kite kene la siap sedia unexpected things in our life….. n lagi satu..we live to learn… watever hapened in this life mengajar kite erti hidup..kite kene la belajar…dan berani menempuh hidup…cewah…

    sory if out of topic..!!! kelam kabut baca komen2 tu pon…!!hehe

    piece..:)

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    1. ruang komen nmpknya lagi panjang dr entri asal.. hehe.

      yep. seperti sy da jwb komen org lain, memang sy akan pergi. takpe.. tak out of topik pn. sabtu ni walimah nya.. taksabar nk jmpe kwn2 lama skali

  29. I just happened to pass by huhu..not really, saw u in my ym as ur status said something like this” i’m busy but u can go to my website” …..

    somehow “she’s married, so?” caught my eyes ;P..(all the comments n ur response agak interesting utk dibaca walaupun agak panjang la jugak)

    Alhamdulillah i heard that u went to her wedding today ..keputusan yg bijak my fwen =D. Just happened i called the bride b4 sy baca all this,just to congratulate her n say sorry coz for some reason i unable to attend her wedding (teringin nk jumpa, coz last jumpe after sek rend). .she’s mentioned about u, n she’s seems so happy to see u today, that’s all that matters =D

    it’s win win situation i think, coz u might dpt hidayah or should i called dpt ‘seru’ utk naik pelamin x lama lg hehe..=P

    1. Thanks for dropping by a comment in my blog. Yup. this is one of the hottest entry so far. I thought I’ll be seeing some of our schoolmate that day.

      As long as I can cheer her, even just as a friend, that will do. That’s what friends are for right?

      InsyaAllah, I’ll invite all of you guys, ex-schoolmate, ex-lovers to my wedding soon. (Soon la sangat!)

  30. I just happened to pass by huhu..not really, saw u in my ym as ur status said something like this” i’m busy but u can go to my website” …..

    somehow “she’s married, so?” caught my eyes ;P..(all the comments n ur response agak interesting utk dibaca walaupun agak panjang la jugak)

    Alhamdulillah i heard that u went to her wedding today ..keputusan yg bijak my fwen =D. Just happened i called the bride b4 sy baca all this,just to congratulate her n say sorry coz for some reason i unable to attend her wedding (teringin nk jumpa, coz last jumpe after sek rend). .she’s mentioned about u, n she’s seems so happy to see u today, that’s all that matters =D

    it’s win win situation i think, coz u might dpt hidayah or should i called dpt ‘seru’ utk naik pelamin x lama lg hehe..=P

    1. Thanks for dropping by a comment in my blog. Yup. this is one of the hottest entry so far. I thought I’ll be seeing some of our schoolmate that day.

      As long as I can cheer her, even just as a friend, that will do. That’s what friends are for right?

      InsyaAllah, I’ll invite all of you guys, ex-schoolmate, ex-lovers to my wedding soon. (Soon la sangat!)

  31. dear adlan, yeah ure right! best not to write about past relationships anymore- in public πŸ™‚

    and you’re not a jerk. just confused maybe?

    afterall, the fundamentals of a successful relationship is trust and respect, right…. i know what you’re trying to express, just wanting to write memoribilias of the past, but shouldnt there be certain things that are best kept in your heart?

    my two cents, please adlan, if u can, get out of the tangles of the past. reminisce if u want, but have certain ‘reservations’ u know… look to the present and future.

    look at me, talking like im right je. sekadar memberi pendapat, coz as a girl, i would love it very much if hubby kept his old flames away from my attention………….. πŸ˜‰

    whatever it is, you know what’s best for you and how to make you and her work πŸ™‚ i akan mendoakan kalian, ya!

    1. OK. thanks for your advice. I’ll become a better person, think rational and get matured. The past will always stays in my mind. Yeah, need some reservations too.

      Maybe I can just chat with my close friend, no need to publish such a disturbing entry like this one.. hehe

      Thanks. Sorry about the postpone of your wedding. Don’t forget to invite me yeah?

  32. dear adlan, yeah ure right! best not to write about past relationships anymore- in public πŸ™‚

    and you’re not a jerk. just confused maybe?

    afterall, the fundamentals of a successful relationship is trust and respect, right…. i know what you’re trying to express, just wanting to write memoribilias of the past, but shouldnt there be certain things that are best kept in your heart?

    my two cents, please adlan, if u can, get out of the tangles of the past. reminisce if u want, but have certain ‘reservations’ u know… look to the present and future.

    look at me, talking like im right je. sekadar memberi pendapat, coz as a girl, i would love it very much if hubby kept his old flames away from my attention………….. πŸ˜‰

    whatever it is, you know what’s best for you and how to make you and her work πŸ™‚ i akan mendoakan kalian, ya!

    1. OK. thanks for your advice. I’ll become a better person, think rational and get matured. The past will always stays in my mind. Yeah, need some reservations too.

      Maybe I can just chat with my close friend, no need to publish such a disturbing entry like this one.. hehe

      Thanks. Sorry about the postpone of your wedding. Don’t forget to invite me yeah?

  33. ilek br0..jgn sdey2..1st luv mang indah..i knew it..dlu mase kt mciium, sy masyuk kt sorg pmpn ni..kokonnya 1st luv la kn..tp x pnah bjmpe sbb malu n sgan..klu jmpe pn dari jauh..tgk2 cmtu je..sbb my studio ngn her stdio sbelah myebelah je..hehe.. then after bout 6 months (kot) ktorg sms,mms,call,chat..kira cm rapat la..tbe2 my nset ilang..kna curi. sbb sy ttinggal nset kt lam locker masa nk g slt jmaat..khilangn nset tu umpama khilangn die..sdey yg amat trse bkn sbb ilang nset..sbb lpas sy pki nset baru pn dia da mhilangkan diri..camtu je.. mujurla kt sblah blik ni ada “abg ketenangan”… kurangla cket rase pdih lpas talk ngn die..0h..itu cte laen. pendek cte,pmpn itu lesap bgtu saje tnpa berita..sy kontek dia x lyn..so sy pun blah..rupe2 ye dia da ada sorg yg lg spesel..em..wat more can i do? so,sy pk blik,pe gna nya brarap pd org yg xm0 kta…wpun shes my 1st love? eh..da da cte sdey. n n0w, dia da clash, she is my juni0r..wat more can i say? more than dat, tiada lg rase sgan n malu spti dahulu..sbb dia hnya sorg yg biase, bkn lg spesel. -n_n-

    skeb00lat latest post: malam yang kukira merenggut keindahan

    1. wah. kisah cinta time matric ye. takpe bro. kita belajar dari pengalaman. tapi bukankah lebih baik jika teruskan berkawan walaupun takde pape hubungan dah.. teruskan perjuangan dan cinta yang Sejati k..

  34. ilek br0..jgn sdey2..1st luv mang indah..i knew it..dlu mase kt mciium, sy masyuk kt sorg pmpn ni..kokonnya 1st luv la kn..tp x pnah bjmpe sbb malu n sgan..klu jmpe pn dari jauh..tgk2 cmtu je..sbb my studio ngn her stdio sbelah myebelah je..hehe.. then after bout 6 months (kot) ktorg sms,mms,call,chat..kira cm rapat la..tbe2 my nset ilang..kna curi. sbb sy ttinggal nset kt lam locker masa nk g slt jmaat..khilangn nset tu umpama khilangn die..sdey yg amat trse bkn sbb ilang nset..sbb lpas sy pki nset baru pn dia da mhilangkan diri..camtu je.. mujurla kt sblah blik ni ada “abg ketenangan”… kurangla cket rase pdih lpas talk ngn die..0h..itu cte laen. pendek cte,pmpn itu lesap bgtu saje tnpa berita..sy kontek dia x lyn..so sy pun blah..rupe2 ye dia da ada sorg yg lg spesel..em..wat more can i do? so,sy pk blik,pe gna nya brarap pd org yg xm0 kta…wpun shes my 1st love? eh..da da cte sdey. n n0w, dia da clash, she is my juni0r..wat more can i say? more than dat, tiada lg rase sgan n malu spti dahulu..sbb dia hnya sorg yg biase, bkn lg spesel. -n_n-

    skeb00lat latest post: malam yang kukira merenggut keindahan

    1. wah. kisah cinta time matric ye. takpe bro. kita belajar dari pengalaman. tapi bukankah lebih baik jika teruskan berkawan walaupun takde pape hubungan dah.. teruskan perjuangan dan cinta yang Sejati k..

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